When you are sharing your Dream and someone begins to bash it, simply remember that no person is completely negative. Every person has a core of goodness within them, and you can focus on that when dealing with difficult, negative people. Instead of becoming defensive or angry, you can choose to respond in a positive manner. Acknowledge and honor the part of them that is trying to change, or that is dealing with the difficulty, even if the results are not so elegant. Appreciate the part of each person that works in accord with your own ideals, and take the time to voice that appreciation. What you focus on expands. As with the Law of Attraction, if you acknowledge and talk about only their positive actions and admirable qualities, they’re more likely to respond in kind, thereby raising their own vibration or attitude.
Don’t judge the negative people in your life, simply limit your time with them or avoid being around them. Sometimes the negative people in your life are close friends and family members, and so it may be difficult to avoid them altogether. You can, however, be grateful for their presence and the lessons they bring. You can also avoid conflict, stay positive, and remain emotionally detached with any conflict that does arise.
You have your Dream to someday make the Workamper lifestyle a part of your life. Be an example to others and simply lead by your example. Hold yourself to a high standard. Be the positive, inspirational, appreciative, and thankful person that you want to be. The kind word of encouragement or support might be just what someone needs to hear.
Until later…
Steve Anderson
Dream Engineer
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