Dreamers,

Ask Not What Others Can Do for You.  Ask What You Can Do for Yourself!

We are very good about not taking responsibility for our incompletes. We can always find someone else or some other circumstance to blame.

You know it is true:  the only one to blame is ourselves!   Even if  someone else’s input, signature, or blessing is necessary to move forward, somewhere along the line, you have dropped the ball.  Have you really pursued it?  It is up to you to keep after the person, circumstance that is standing in the way of your success.  Get out your calendar and schedule reminders to yourself; even if you passed it on to someone else’s desk.  That’s right:  there is always the option to delegate!  If you don’t have the expertise, system or ability to finish a task, enlist others!  The rule of thumb, however, to get something done,  is to do it yourself.   If you have delegated it, make sure you are kept apprised of progress made.

Do what you have to do to get your tasks completed.  Assess what needs to be done. Plan how to accomplish each one.  Involve others, if you must.  Consciously take the next step of filling out required documents, mailing them in, meet with your [fill in the blank – be it lawyer, accountant, parent, boss, child].

Remember—limit yourself to a couple of projects at a time. Don’t let multiple projects take up space in your house, your RV, and most definitely, Your Mind!!!!

Evaluate progress on the task.  Then, realize that if the task is  not completed, you have yourself to blame.

Until next time…

Steve Anderson, Director of Possibilities

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Despite the perfect plan, you will confront obstacles along your journey.  Look at your roadblocks as opportunities to make things better.

You’ve heard that if you ever catch on fire, you should stop, drop and roll.  When you hit a roadblock, you should do the very same thing.

First, you STOP.   In order to evaluate your situation, it is necessary to brainstorm the way to get around, over or through your roadblock.

Next, you  DROP in order to find a solution to your problem. You are moving through your obstacle, not standing still. You move ahead cautiously.

Finally, you ROLL which is taking action to defeat your obstacle. It is your persistence that will lead to success.

All along, do not lose sight of your dreams.  Maintain a positive focus no matter what obstacles you have to face.  Keep taking those action steps to get closer to the fulfillment of your goals.

Finally, pat yourself on the back for successfully negotiating a difficult path.  Look back at all that you have accomplished with pride.

Until later…

Steve Anderson,

Your Dream Engineer!

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When you come to a yellow light, what do you do?  Do you come to a complete stop? Sometimes, depending on your speed and what’s ahead or behind you, holding yourself back can cause an accident.  Sure, it is wise to be cautious.  Evaluate yourself to determine if you are being overly cautious.  Are you the type who always is cautious, for fear of seeming foolish or because someone else is critical, or the way is hard? You have to stop holding yourself back and go for your goal!

Do you talk to yourself?  I know I do.  You have to tell yourself “I’m not a quitter.”  There are times you will question yourself, your motivation, your timing.  If your goal is something you still are excited about accomplishing, then envision attaining it. That should provide the motivation.

Then, keep in mind, there is no PERFECT time. Get on with it! The sooner you take action, the sooner you will pick up speed, the sooner you will see where you need to make adjustments, the sooner you will hit your target.

Below is taken from Jack Canfield, in his book “The Success Principles”

It’s time to quit waiting for:

Perfection

Inspiration

Permission

Reassurance

Someone to change

The right person to come along

The kids to leave home

A more favorable horoscope

The new administration to take over

An absence of risk

Someone to discover you

A clear set of instructions

More self-confidence

The pain to go away

Get on with it already!

Until later….

Steve Anderson,

Dream Engineer!

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